CLICK HERE FOR BLOGGER TEMPLATES AND MYSPACE LAYOUTS »

Friday, October 30, 2009

Save a life today, Share this story...

Back in June I lost my childhood friend, Jacob...He left us before his time, and he will never be forgotten...Please read this blog that his wife so courageously wrote...Share with all you know, it could save someone's life...



CHANTIX...FOR JACOB
As most of you know I lost my husband Jacob Isaac Butler on June 10th, 2009. I believe the prescription smoking pill CHANTIX played a huge role in Jacobs death. The whole purpose of this blog is to inform. If you will just take time to read further on and spread the word about this pill I would greatly appreciate it. I am well aware that different people react differently to medication but I will preach all day about this if it will spare the torturous grief that my family and I have had to endure.

Jacob began taking Chantix in March of 09’ and had almost completed the 13 week program. He became withdrawn from family and friends which was the opposite of how Jake would normally act. He had stopped going to work a few weeks before his death. He had mood swings that we both assumed was caused from work. We never knew it could be the CHANTIX pills, nor did his doctor ever make it a point to warn us about the horrific side effects.

Below are the side effects, statistics, Stories, a video link, and contact information for the ongoing CHANTIX lawsuits. Please continue to read.

SIDE EFFECTS

WARNING:
Serious neuropsychiatric events, including, but not limited to depression, suicidal ideation, suicide attempt and completed suicide have been reported in patients taking CHANTIX. Some reported cases may have been complicated by the symptoms of nicotine withdrawal in patients who stopped smoking. Depressed mood may be a symptom of nicotine withdrawal. Depression, rarely including suicidal ideation, has been reported in smokers undergoing a smoking cessation attempt without medication. However, some of these symptoms have occurred in patients taking CHANTIX who continued to smoke.

All patients being treated with CHANTIX should be observed for neuropsychiatric symptoms including changes in behavior, hostility, agitation, depressed mood, and suicide-related events, including ideation, behavior, and attempted suicide. These symptoms, as well as worsening of pre-existing psychiatric illness and completed suicide have been reported in some patients attempting to quit smoking while taking CHANTIX in the post-marketing experience. When symptoms were reported, most were during CHANTIX treatment, but some were following discontinuation of CHANTIX therapy.
These events have occurred in patients with and without pre-existing psychiatric disease. Patients with serious psychiatric illness such as schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and major depressive disorder did not participate in the pre-marketing studies of CHANTIX and the safety and efficacy of CHANTIX in such patients has not been established.
Advise patients and caregivers that the patient should stop taking CHANTIX and contact a healthcare provider immediately if agitation, hostility, depressed mood, or changes in behavior or thinking that are not typical for the patient are observed, or if the patient develops suicidal ideation or suicidal behavior. In many post-marketing cases, resolution of symptoms after discontinuation of CHANTIX was reported, although in some cases the symptoms persisted; therefore, ongoing monitoring and supportive care should be provided until symptoms resolve. You may also have trouble sleeping, vivid, unusual, or strange dreams while taking CHANTIX. Use caution driving or operating machinery until you know how CHANTIX may affect you.

An honest warning label for Chantix would read something like this…….. “If you take Chantix, you may be faced with committing suicide or spiraling into a state of major depression to your dismay. This feeling may hit you like a ton of bricks for no reason other than taking the drug itself. Oh yeah, and we are not sure how long these effects will stay with you after you stop taking Chantix, have fun and congratulations for responding to our giant marketing campaign, your life is now in danger over your commitment to quit smoking with Chantix, good luck!”

CHANTIX STORIES AND EXPERIENCES

Here is another terrible story relating to Chantix. Pfizer says the benefits of Chantix outweigh the bad. We disagree…

“We just returned from the funeral of a close friend who shot himself. This was totally out of character for him and we were lost for an explanation until we found out that he had been taking Chantix. He was having horrible nightmares, unable to eat and then he took his life. He had a wonderful wife that he absolutely loved. A great job, lots of friends and a faith in God. This drug stole his life and has devastated his wife’s life forever.”
Comment by Barbara - November 28, 2008 at 6:23 pm

---The story below reminds me so much of Jake---

Wayne Marshall was a welder and life-long smoker who had tried everything to stem his 20-smoke-a-day habit, according to his widow Emma. He had been excited about the drug's promise when prescribed to him in August, but according to his wife Wayne quickly went downhill. She indicates in published reports that he had cut himself off from family and friends, and had signed himself off work about a week before he died. However, she said, there were no outward signs that he was contemplating an end to his life.

Still, the changes to his personality were staggering. Always one to have a large circle of friends, to go out with the boys and cheer on the local football team, to find her husband sitting on the stoop sobbing uncontrollably was surreal. And even though he had taken up smoking again after finishing the 13-week CHANTIX program, he appeared upbeat. He was talking with his young wife about Christmas with his two children from a previous marriage.

All seemed well, until November…

More on Wayne Marshalls story
http://www.yorkshirepost.c..o.uk/news/Alert-over-smoki..ng-drug-link.3690519.jp


More Stories/Related Links

http://www.uslaw.com/lawsu..its/?itemid=5

http://pharmagossip.blogsp..ot.com/2008/06/chantix-pul..led-fda-video.html -CHANTIX VIDEO

www.quitchantix.com

STATISTICS

The FDA has announced a public health advisory about abnormal behavior, agitation, depressed mood, suicidal ideation, and actual suicidal behavior with Pfizer’s anti-smoking drug. And has provided updated numbers - 491 cases of suicidal thinking or behavior, including 420 in the US. And of those, there were 39 suicides, including 34 in the US. Even more alarming, the authors described reports of a greater spectrum of side effects beyond suicide and depression, including 224 reports of potential cardiac rhythm disturbances, 86 cases of seizure, 148 reports of vision problems, and 544 reports of loss of glycemic control (diabetes). In response to ISMP study on Chantix, the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) issued an immediate ban on the use of Chantix by pilots and air traffic controllers.

CHANTIX LAWSUITS

http://www.lanierlawfirm.c..om/legal_practice_areas/ph..armaceutical_liability/cha..ntix_litigation.htm

Houston Office Lanier Law Firm
713-659-5200
800-723-3216



Jacob was a hardworking, smart, all around good person, always willing to help someone in need. He enjoyed mustangs/cars, internet research, fishing, poker, and grilling on his pit for family and friends. He was a loving son, husband, father, and friend.

This hasn’t been easy for me to put everything out here like this however it absolutely terrifies me to think that another family could go through this. Another mother and father could lose their son or daughter. Another person could lose their spouse and blame themselves for not seeing it every single day for the rest of their lives. Another child could lose their mother/father and never truly know what kind of person they were.

I was standing in line at the pharmacy a couple of weeks ago when I overheard an older woman in front of me talking to the pharmacist. She said this was her and her husbands last resort to quit smoking. As she turned to leave with the prescription in her hand, I felt an overwhelming urge to ask her what they were using. I pulled her aside and she replied that they would be taking CHANTIX. I then told her of Jacobs story. With a look of shock she said “You know I really believe in angels, and I believe God sent you to me today.” She went on to tell me how her husband had went through depression after being a cop for 22 years. She also said the Dr never said a word about the more serious side effects. She then handed the prescription back to the pharmacist, thanked me while hugging me, and gave me her number.

If I can take this awful experience and make something good of it then its worth every minute that I’ve had to bring this all out into the open. Thank you for listening to our story. Please spread the word on this awful medication.

We love you very much Jacob and miss you more with each passing day.


In Loving Memory of Jacob Isaac Butler

May 6th, 1986 - June 10th, 2009

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Mitchel Musso Concert Ticket Giveaway!

Mitchel Musso Concert Ticket Giveaway!

Hey, everyone check this out @ mommafindings.com!!! Looks like a great chance to win free tickets, and make a special memory with your child, or just have a fun night out of the house...




Momma Findings

Monday, August 24, 2009

Forensics & Faith: Computer Virus Warning--New and Wicked

Forensics & Faith: Computer Virus Warning--New and Wicked

I think I have this on my computer...LMK, if anyone has any more information on this Virus...

Thursday, August 20, 2009

"Trust in the Lord, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed."

-Psalm 37:3

Lord, let me be your messenger, your hands, your feet, your voice, as I walk in the world today.

If being good was easy there would be no crime in the world. Everyday is a new day, a blessing none of us deserve, and most of us take for granted.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

THE ROAD

Sometimes the road is long, Sometimes it isn't long enough

Sometimes the road gets narrow, Sometimes we can't make it to the otherside

Sometimes the road is smooth and has no construction signs, sometimes it's rocky as hell and

the traffic is backed up

Sometimes we leave the road all together to find a new path, Sometimes It just finds us

So where ever your road may take you, Make sure you keep your eyes looking straight ahead

and not behind, for we can not travel in reverse, but must travel onward until we reach that

golden road in the sky

Thursday, August 13, 2009

By Chance

"Sing and rejoice, O daughter of Zion: for, lo, I come, and I will dwell in the midst of thee, saith the Lord." - Zechariah 2:10

I so needed to read this scripture today. If there ever was a day I wished that I could go back to bed and start over, this was it.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

The ADHD Challenge

Anyone with children knows that there are all kinds of challenges we face when it comes to raising our kids. Some granted are a lot more intimidating than others. In the past couple of years, one of my biggest obstacles has been learning to deal with my son's ADHD. The most difficult thing about it is I'm still learning to deal with my own ADD. How in the world, as parents, do we conquer this never ending battle with an invisible opponent?

Whenever I heard the term Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, I just always dismissed it as a medical term for children who would not behave. I never really thought much more about it, until I began hearing the term in reference to my little boy. Usually, it infuriated me to no end that anyone would think of him like that. Of course, I knew he could be a little hyperactive, at times somewhat headstrong, but that was just him being a regular child at his age. Then he started school. Kindergarten was a bit bumpy, but he quickly began to catch on to the basics and soon excelled rapidly. First grade however proved to be more of a chore for him, he had a harder time staying focused. Second grade seemed like the nightmare that would never end, from week to week, it was like his goal was to see just how many notes he could bring home. It was then that my husband and I knew we had to intervene.

We discussed all our options, and decided that we wanted to do everything we could to help him without putting him on medication. Although, the first Doctor we brought him to wanted to put him on an antidepressant and other medications after 15 minutes of reading the parent/teacher questionnaires. I knew that was not something I was willing to subject my child to. So, we tried alternative treatment, and he began therapy with a counselor. From there, he was referred to a psychiatrist. After a few months of exhausting all other options, we finally gave in and put him on a daily dose of CONCERTA.

With in a couple of weeks, we saw a major difference in our child. Grades began to improve at school and so did his behavior. I love his team of encourager's, what I like to call his counselor and psychiatrist. They try to teach him that his medicine is not a miracle pill, that he is ultimately responsible for his behavior and actions towards the world around him. I've never wanted my child to be labeled as a problem child, and I want him to be a able to shine in all that he does. I do look at ADHD as a challenge, but not as something to use as an excuse for how my child acts. I continue to research ADHD and try to motivate other parents to join together in this struggle that so many of us face now with our children.

Anyone that has any information or a story of their own, please share it. We are made overcomers by the words of our testimony. It's a good feeling to know that you are not alone.



Wednesday, August 5, 2009

CATCH OF THE DAY

GREAT DAY AT THE LAKE, CATCHING FISH WITH CRACKERS, AND NOTHING BUT A SWIMSUIT COVER-UP...GOOD TIMES :)

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

THE MONEY PIT NO MORE

This week has been surprisingly very productive despite the topsy turvy, unpredictable schedule we've been on. My office is finally functioning as it should, and not as the junk room between the kitchen and Garage. In addition to that, we have finally decided on the trim color for the outside of the house. Woo Hoo!!! That has been an ongoing nightmare along with the rest of RENOVATIONS to our own MONEY PIT.

Earlier today, I got some shocking yet exciting news!!! This weekend the majority of my family from Arkansas will be making their way to our hometown, in hopes of helping us finish all major projects around our home. Such a blessing could not be more appreciated at this time, this is truly a monumental event for my family.

So this weekend, I will be documenting this extraordinary task and hopefully posting it to my blog for all to witness :) God is Good!!!

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Blessings from Heaven


I am sure all of us have seen a photo like this at one time or another. Each person looking closer to see if they can tell exactly what it is. Usually being dumbfounded until the mother points out the tiny head, the little thumb in the mouth, slender body, and small feet that just moments before were all a blur. For those of us who have been there, we know how precious this fuzzy image really is. With this picture you finally get confirmation of the life that is developing inside your womb. My baby sister sent me this image yesterday on my cell after her ultrasound. It brought tears to my eyes. You see last year, April 16th 2008, she gave birth to her second child that was stillborn. No one could understand it, but we had to say goodbye to our beautiful angel, Baby Jocelynn Anne-Marie. I admired my sister and brother-n-law for their strength and how they held on to their faith at such a devastating time in their lives. So when my sister informed me that she was expecting again just a few short weeks ago, I was ecstatic at the news. I thank God for blessing my sister with another child, I pray that he will continue to watch over her and keep his hand on this miracle from Heaven.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

In need of motivation ASAP




Today marks the continuance of one BEAUTIFUL DISASTER, aka MY LIFE. We have been in constant renovations with our house for over a year now, and I am so ready for the chaos to be over with. It seems like once we get one thing fixed, something else decides to kick the bucket. For example, we almost finished remodeling the master bathroom before I went on vacation with the kiddos. I had just put on the finishing touches to the wall color, turned on the sink to begin cleaning up when it started to leak. The toilet refused to flush, the new shower enclosure did not fit, and it only gets worse from there. With so little rain the past few months, our foundation has begun to shift, and all freshly textured and painted walls are no more. It's beginning to look like a hopeless situation, and I'm having a hard time getting excited about picking up a paintbrush anytime soon.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

My Monkey Boy




My son Hunter, I can not put into words how much joy this child brings to my heart. He has been the most precious inspiration since he was brought into my world at 8 months old. I often refer to him as my son from the heart, not by birth because he was part of the package when I met my husband. I tease my hubby that I fell in love with Hunter before I fell in love with him, he was just that cute. Tonight as my lil man unloads the dishwasher and asks me if he can help me with dinner, I wonder what my life would be without him. I still can't imagine it, he is one of the greatest gifts I've ever been given. I can only hope that he feels the same way about me.

Friday, July 24, 2009

"Thou wilt show me the path of life: in thy presence is fullness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for ever more." -Psalm 16:11

Everyday that I live I am reminded that my life is nothing without the Lord...Everything I need is in him...

Thursday, July 23, 2009

SLOW DAY AT THE CASA


Waking up this morning was a chore, but it was nice getting to sleep in a lil with my hubby there beside me. Being out of town for two wks without my best friend has helped me to appreciate every moment I have with him. I used to believe that if we weren't going out someplace special or doing something to get our adrenaline pumping, then we were just doomed for BOREDOM. The longer we're together though, I find myself desiring just a SLOW DAY AT THE CASA. No interruptions, he and I, the kiddos, enjoying the more simple things in life. As we ate lunch together, I couldn't help but smile as our youngest daughter climbed up beside her Daddy, proceeded to mimic his every move as they finished their sandwich in unison. These are the moments I cherish more and more everyday.

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

God must have a sense of humor...

As I listen to my three amazing children playing in the background, I think to myself God must have a sense of humor. If someone had told me 8 yrs ago that I would be the mother of 3 and married to an outspoken redneck, I would have let them know they had fallen of their rocker. Children were never something I saw in my future, EVER. I never was the teenage girl babysitting for extra money, except once on a rare occasion. The joke was that I would never survive outside of my parents house unless I had a rich husband and a chauffeur. Boy did I prove them wrong. Right now, I'm multitasking like a pro. Typing on my new blog, handing out JELLO cups to my girls, and trying to get caught up on the endless abundance of housework. So thanx God for having a chuckle at my expense, I can't imagine my life any other way ;)